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Home Good homeschooling/unschooling web sites

Jon's Homeschool Resource Page
Overall, the best site I know of. Among other things, it has good descriptions of the numerous homeschooling and unschooling mailing lists.

Quo Vadis is an inspiring annual gathering for self-educated adults, directed by my very good friend (and NBTSC staffer) Evan Wright. I love QV and have attended for 2 of its 3 years.  This year I am officially on the brochure, as in  "meet Grace Llewellyn." I told Evan I thought that would be a little weird, but that he could try to use me as bait if he wanted to, and he did. The 2005 gathering is June 25-July 1, in the forest near Eugene, Oregon.  

Cafi Cohen's thorough Homeschool Teens and College site. (Cafi is a seasoned homeschooling mom--her son and daughter are now in their mid-20's--and the author of the excellent book And What About College: How Homeschooling Leads To Admissions To The Best Colleges and Universities, and of Homeschooling: The Teen Years, which is probably also excellent but I haven't read it yet.) Her site has great stuff you won't find elsewhere, like 23 homeschoolers' college admissions essays, specific information on some colleges' admission policies for homeschoolers, etc.   

Peter Kowalke is a grown up unschooler who has made it his business to be a helpful resource to others following in his footsteps. I really enjoyed his video documentary of grown homeschoolers, called Grown Without Schooling

Don't miss Karl Bunday's extensive, radical, thoroughly documented site: School is Dead, Learn in Freedom! Includes, among a trillion other things, a long list of colleges that have admitted homeschoolers.

The Holt Associates/Growing Without Schooling site. This is the oldest  homeschooling support organization on the planet. These folks were friends of the late great John Holt, and they continue to follow up on his work in other ways as well. ALAS! Growing Without Schooling is no longer being published. This is the worst tragedy that has befallen the unschooling community, ever. But I believe you can (and definitely should!) still buy back issues. 

Another very good site is maintained by Home Education Press.   These wonderful people have been common sense activists in the homeschooling movement for decades. They have done a great deal to make the homeschooling movement a cohesive, mutually supportive whole. 

The Self-Education Foundation site.  The SEF is a really great organization started by a good friend of mine (and former NBTSC staffer), Billy Wimsatt, who wrote 2 of my favorite books, Bomb the Suburbs and No More Prisons. (The latter includes a sparkly, original section on unschooling/self-directed education.) The SEF works to build and support a cohesive movement, across cultures and disciplines, of people initiating their own education. It funds, supports, and networks unschoolers and education mavericks from tough backgrounds who have added barriers to successfully educating themselves, their kids, their communities, and the world. I am proud to say that I have served on its board, though I can't take credit for having done much in that capacity. 

The teen resources section of the California Homeschool Network site. Lots of good advice and lots of good links. 

The Homeschool Association of California  also has good advice and links. 

The Not Back to School Camp community site--extremely interactive, and run by campers and former campers. Ongoing discussions on many topics, some related directly to unschooling. 

 

Mi familia 

My big brother Mark and his wife Debbe are amazing wildlife photographers. Their site is here.

My big brother Othman puts heaps of energy into supporting the development of more environmental consciousness in Saudi Arabia and the rest of the Muslim world. I'm sure that's not a very accurate little summary, but it will have to do for the moment. There's an abstract here of a paper he presented called "The Basis for a Discipline of Islamic Environmental Law." And here is the text of a long piece he collaborated on, called Environmental Protection in Islam. (I am really proud of my family, in case you can't tell.) 

Grace links

On the Lowry House Publishers site you can find info on The Teenage Liberation Handbook, Real Lives, Freedom Challenge, Guerrilla Learning (which I co-authored with Amy Silver), unschooling T shirts, and other stuff.  

Here's a list of articles about my work, interviews with me, etc. 

 Here's the Not Back to School Camp site, complete with bizillions of photos and tons of information.

My spiffy and egocentric bellydance site is up at BellydanceByInanna.

Late one night in January 2004...

..... I was depressed. I had had a huge fight with my closest friend and was feeling very dark and alone in the universe. I couldn't sleep so I went to my computer to tackle some long-overdue website-updating. While fixing  non-working links one thing led to another, and soon I was entertaining myself by unearthing tidbits about friends and family. (Like, I knew my great grandfather Percy Hagerman was a mountaineer, but now I learned specifically that he had been part of a duo that was the first to scale 3 of Colorado's most challenging 14,000+ foot peaks, and like, I read my little brother-Ned's-and-his-wife-Colleen's-and-their-daughter-Bethany's recent orienteering scores, as well as a syllabus from "Tyrosine Kinases in Physiology and Disease," one of my little brother Richard's UCLA biology seminars last year.) Still not ready to face the mattress, I next scrolled through the first 71 "grace llewellyn" pages of google links. Yep, 71--but there was tons of repetition, and a lot of the sites only briefly mentioned or quoted me, and after about 57 pages a lot of the links weren't actually about me but rather about, say, some book with "Grace" in the title, published by Llewellyn Press, or some such. Anyway, it was 6 a.m. when I finished, and I was smiling. I felt affirmed, valued, touched, and delighted by the serendipities I had discovered. Mostly it was lots of sweet recommendations of my work. But also....

at the end of one bio of me that mostly sounded like all the other bios of me, I discovered that "In her spare time Grace is working on a novel--a murder mystery set at a national fencing tournament, tentatively titled Stop Cut." Cool!
 
I am on the "Ladies we like" page of the LadyFest website, along with ladies I like, such as Yoko Ono, Starhawk, and Frida Kahlo.
There is some bulletin board where somebody is giving away a bunch of stuff, including a copy of the TLH, and 2 people want it and one says "the we are the people our parents warned us against he can have, but the teenage liberation handbook is something i'm willing to fight (metaphorically) for." I got a big smile out of that one.
One of the reviews of the TLH on Barnes & Noble was written by a group of teacher education students--they didn't quite buy everything I had to say, but they were far from dismissive and very thoughtful and I felt fondly toward them and hope they are not feeling too discouraged now that they are probably out in the trenches actually teaching.
I'm on the "Karl Marx’s Top 25 Reading List for Resurgent Radicalism" written by the Left Bank Books Collective, along with Fast Food Nation and The People's History of the United States and other cool stuff.
David Carlton, a math professor at Stanford who's very intentional and experimental about his teaching process--sounds like it would be a nice adventure to take a class from him--talks up the TLH a bit.
Kelly Link, an author on tour promoting her book Stranger Things Happen, reports that during the trip "Lynne, who is a librarian, finds a copy of The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How to Quit School and Get a Real Life by Grace Llewellyn. She buys it for her high school. Lynne is the coolest librarian I know."
ifeminists.com chose my book as a giveaway prize one week. 
And finally. The high point of my long night, the one moment when I laughed right out loud, came when I discovered on the And So No Sin website (And So No Sin seems to be a fascinating dance company) that a school bus is named after me! Upon emailing them I learned right away that the other Grace is white on the outside and red velvet and gold lame on the inside, and 2 lovely-sounding people who've been inspired by the TLH live in it. :-) How lucky am I?!
 

My life! Stuff I am or have recently been involved in...

I strongly recommend the work Brad Blanton, Taber Shadburne, and others are doing with Radical Honesty. Their work has changed and continues to change my life.

The Eugene Concert Choir. I really loved singing soprano with this quite-fine-for-a-small-city choir in the 2003-2004 season. Among other things we performed the Verdi Requiem, a peak experience. 

The Middle Eastern Dance Guild of Eugene. In 1990, four of us started this sisterly organization designed to provide performance and learning opportunities for everybody local interested in middle eastern dance, regardless of who they studied with or didn't study with. It has thrived, and it makes a lot of great stuff happen--shows both fancy and informal, workshops with nationally known teachers, etc. I haven't been integrally involved for many years, except that I perform at many of their shows. I  love how MEDGE is a warmly welcoming, open-to-all democracy. And I think it's a great model for self-directed learners in any field who imagine that they would benefit from collaborating loosely with others. We didn't make it up from scratch, by the way--we modeled it after the Corvallis Bellydance Performance Guild

White Bird Clinic is a unique human services agency in Eugene, and it's here because I volunteer there and think it is awesome. It manages a lovely balancing act between, on the one hand, having its act together enough, being "legitimate" enough to receive all kinds of government grants...and on the other hand, remaining true to the sometimes-radical hearts of its staff. It's a collective, run by consensus, full of really fun, great volunteers and paid staffers (the latter including my dear friend Kyla Wetherell). It offers a variety of important services--crisis intervention, long-term counseling, homeless case management, low cost medical and dental care, etc.,--along with intangible, crucial stuff (like kindness/simple respect/a nonjudgmental welcome) to its clientele, many of whom are homeless and extremely low income folks.  

All Round Magazine. I already link to the website of Tilke Elkin's beautiful magazine on my Not Back to School Camp staff links page, but it belongs here too, because the pretty, colorful, feng-shui-correct All Round office is in my house! Right next to the kitchen, in a bedroom I don't use. Nathen (my good friend and the AR marketing manager and a staple NBTSC staffer) is holed up in there right now, probably feeling a little tense because he just lost a giant computer file. He walked past me a few minutes ago, making fun of the Steely Dan CD I was listening to. 

I went to India for a month in 2004, and while I drew on many helpful resources online and otherwise, I particularly benefited from the Lonely Planet travelers' forum, Thorn Tree

Americanistan is a Eugene band that plays mostly original material but with a strong middle eastern influence. I often perform (bellydance) at their shows and they are just really great people who sing and play their hearts out for dancers and audiences.

I have recently been cultivating a serious relationship with Bikram Yoga. I try to go 5 days a week. It's a rather controversial yoga school, but I really love it. I love the heat, the repetition (in each class you do the same exact 26 poses in the same exact order), the constant verbal instruction (helps me stay focused), and the lack of a lot of overt "spiritual" dogma, which I feel leaves room for me to engage with my practice in an authentically spiritual way. 

And I've been having a fling, likely to develop into a serious relationship, with ecstatic dance, specifically through the vehicle of Vinn Marti's SoulMotion. I have recently attended 2 retreats that rocked my world. Feels a little like my own version of getting to go to Not Back to School Camp (as a camper).